When I was 22, my mom and I opened a home decor shop together.
It was 2003. I was fearless in the specific way you can only be at 22, when you haven’t yet learned what can go wrong and therefore don’t waste any energy worrying about it. We signed a lease. We ordered inventory. We put our names on something.
And I was in charge of the plaster.
That was my department, and I took it seriously. Plaster pieces arrived plain. Chalky, unfinished, the color of nothing at all. My job was to paint them into something a person would want to carry to the register and take home.
So I’d stand at that workbench for hours. Base coats and glazes and dry brushing and the occasional total failure that went straight in the bin. Turning blank things into finished things, one piece at a time, while the radio played and my mom handled everything on the other side of the wall.
I didn’t know it then, but that workbench was building me.
That’s where my love of art started. The hands-on kind. Give me a blank surface and some color and something in my nervous system settles. To this day, when a week gets heavy, I don’t reach for the remote. I reach for something creative. Flowers, usually. Somewhere along the way, floral arranging became my love language, and my family has learned that a kitchen counter covered in stems means Mom had a week.
The shop itself didn’t survive the recession. That part of the story is for another day, and I’ve told it before.
But the thing the shop grew in me never left.
People sometimes ask what a paintbrush has to do with selling houses. It’s a fair question. Nobody puts “can finish a plaster piece” on a listing presentation.
Here’s my answer, though. Everything.
Because after sixteen years in real estate, I can tell you that the technical parts are only half the job. The contracts, the timelines, the disclosures, the negotiation. All of it matters, all of it is learnable, and any competent agent should have it handled before they ever get to your kitchen table.
The other half is vision.
It’s walking into a blank, dated, or downright strange space and seeing what it could become. It’s helping a buyer look past the previous owner’s paint choices, and their furniture, and that one heavily wallpapered accent wall, to the bones of a house that would actually fit their life. Most buyers cannot do this on their own, and there is no shame in that. It’s a learned skill. I learned it at a workbench.
It’s also helping a seller present a home so its story is the first thing people feel when the front door opens. Where the tree goes in December. Where the morning light lands.
And then there’s the other place creativity earns its keep, which is when a deal hits a wall.
Every transactionl eventually hits some kind of wall. An inspection turns up something nobody expected. An appraisal comes in strange. A buyer’s financing shifts three weeks before close. A seller’s next home falls through and suddenly the timeline everybody agreed to doesn’t work for anyone.
This is the moment that separates agents, and it has nothing to do with how many transactions are printed on somebody’s postcard.
The agents who only know the standard moves get stuck. They tell you the deal is dead. Sometimes they’re right. Usually they’re just out of ideas.
I go back to the workbench. There is always another way to approach a blank surface. Extensions, credits, creative structures, a phone call to a lender who will actually pick up, a conversation with the other agent that gets both sides talking about what they really need instead of what they said they wanted. Almost everything is fixable if somebody stays curious about it for another twenty minutes.
I see possibilities where other people see problems. I’ve been practicing since 2003, one plaster piece at a time.
I can’t promise your move will have no blank, intimidating moments. Every good one does. The scary part is usually a sign you’re doing something that matters.
What I can promise is a guide who genuinely enjoys that part of the work. Bring me the weird layout. Bring me the tricky timing. Bring me the “we’re not sure this can even work.”
We’ll get creative together.
Whenever you’re ready, I’m here.
Joyful real estate that feels like home.
WITH JOY,

P.S. What’s Jennuine Living, again?
We’re a gaggle of REALTORS(R), Lenders, and Creatives that makes joyful real estate feel like home.
We bring creativity, peace of mind, and a sense of delight into one of life’s biggest transitions, so that our clients’ experience:
-> More joy, less stress and fewer “oh crap” moments.
-> No guesswork, no surprises, just honest communication.
-> Connection first, here, you are family.
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